Events, features, and news for the black gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and gay-friendly communities
Dear Toska
My In-Laws Are NOT Invited
Written by Administrator   
Saturday, 21 July 2007
I've been in a committed relationship living with a lady whom I adore, the sex is incredible, she cooks her ass off, and our schedules are perfect. The only problem I have is with her family. In the beginning I thought it was nice to be part of a supportive family but as time went on it became clear to me that they’re a bunch of leeches.
 
Boyfriend Excuses
Written by Toska   
Friday, 13 April 2007
 I do not own a car so on occasion my long time boyfriend helps me out by taking me to appointments, but now he gives me excuses. I cannot understand why he would fake me out, how should I handle his excuses?
 
Living with a Nag
Written by Toska   
Friday, 13 April 2007
I’ve met this lady that s I’m madly in love with. The only problem is -- once we moved in together it seems like I’m living with a crazy woman.  What should I do? 
 
Broke Girlfriend?
Written by Toska   
Tuesday, 28 March 2006
If you're really feeling someone, and they could use your assistance in something would you assist them? My girl needs me to give her $300 to enroll in this class. I really like her, and I don't mind helping her, it's just that I wonder if once I help her would she leave me once she accomplishes what she sets out to do.
 
Am I the Baby's Momma or Daddy?
Written by Toska   
Monday, 20 March 2006
Today I found out that I was pregnant.  Now this may sound like great news for some but there’s a little confusion surrounding my pregnancy.